Sovereign
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As someone who gets frequently harassed, there's literally no reason for a stranger to say anything at all to me unless they're asking me a question ("do you have the time" etc). Ignoring people who say things to you is all you really can do, I've gotten so accustomed to being harassed that I just chose to keep on walking.Granted a lot of those people were being very rude, there were many who were just being kind. I'm just not sure if all of that should be considered harassment. Not that I say anything to girls on the street. But I can see how annoying it must be for women when this happens that frequently.
Granted a lot of those people were being very rude, there were many who were just being kind. I'm just not sure if all of that should be considered harassment. Not that I say anything to girls on the street. But I can see how annoying it must be for women when this happens that frequently.
No, that's harassment. The difference between the two is that catcalling is a very distinctive whistle, not attempting to talk to some random attractive person walking past in the hopes they'll stop and give you their number. And yes, even catcalling is considered harassment. Any kind of act that makes a person, regardless of gender, feel uncomfortable, unsafe and insecure is an act of harassment.That's not harassment. That's catcalling. There's a difference between the two.
There's a big difference between glancing at someone that's attractive and catcalling, calling out to them and trying to get their attention, following them down the street for minutes on end, etc. The fact you seem to lump looking at someone attractive together with harassing said attractive person is quite sad.If you're very pretty on the eyes, regardless of gender, you are going to get catcalled, and nothing is going to stop it even with the loudest of bitching. Gods forbid if somebody glances at another for being easy on the eyes. Freakin' first world problems and political correctness have no end.
This is the line of this post that makes me think this might just be a bad joke in horrible taste, because surely no one can make that statement with a straight face. If it is a joke you really need to learn how to make a joke.If somebody doesn't want to get catcalled when they KNOW they are pretty, they should wrap themselves like muslims do.
So yeah, tomorrow I will walk up and down the streets wearing clothing that makes me feel hot and sexy, but then get offended at anybody who catcalls me and claim it as harassment.
Freakin' first world problems and political correctness have no end. If somebody doesn't want to get catcalled when they KNOW they are pretty, they should wrap themselves like muslims do.
So yeah, tomorrow I will walk up and down the streets wearing clothing that makes me feel hot and sexy, but then get offended at anybody who catcalls me and claim it as harassment.
There's a big difference between glancing at someone that's attractive and catcalling, calling out to them and trying to get their attention, following them down the street for minutes on end, etc.
Per your definition, wouldn't glancing at someone that's attractive constitute as harassment if the act made the person observed uncomfortable (which is something that's apparently a Thing with some people, surprisingly enough)?Any kind of act that makes a person, regardless of gender, feel uncomfortable, unsafe and insecure is an act of harassment.
Just imagine yourself in the same situation, every ****ing day and night of your life and imagine that during these instances, you are living in a culture in which your body is incessantly commidified, sexualised and objectified. In a culture in which you are told that your value should be based on these traits as well.
Glancing is not harassment, staring and objectifying someone is. You can't avoid something if you don't notice it first. It's pretty ****ing easy guys.
What's important here is agency and consent. Put yourself in their shoes, occupy their space and show some compassion for their situation. Street harassment is just another cog in the machine that perpetuates instances of a sexually objectifying culture for women and too a large degree, men as well, in some pretty subtle and sinister ways.