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Having written a few papers on chivalry and its effects and consequences, as well as done a significant amount of research into the matter, I'm hoping to learn SWRP's thoughts.
I'm an adamant advocate of etiquette, so, naturally, chivalry is something that comes into play in my day-to-day life. Some women, however, tend to feel that a man's going out of his way in order to display a chivalrous attitude is disrespectful to their status of equality and their independence. And quite understandably, what with the pains taken to ensure women's rights. Obviously, there must be a certain balance, and most likely a line that divides between courtesy and disrespect.
So, like I said, I want to know what SWRP thinks, though specifically the women. Is there a line? Where is that line? General thoughts? Concerns? New ideas? Is chivalry outright disrespectful? Or, conversely, is it a necessity? I realize this isn't a raging controversy, but I find it enlightening and rather important nonetheless.
All comments of a non-idiotic (i.e. derogatory/sexist and/or spam) nature are, of course, welcome.
Discuss!
I'm an adamant advocate of etiquette, so, naturally, chivalry is something that comes into play in my day-to-day life. Some women, however, tend to feel that a man's going out of his way in order to display a chivalrous attitude is disrespectful to their status of equality and their independence. And quite understandably, what with the pains taken to ensure women's rights. Obviously, there must be a certain balance, and most likely a line that divides between courtesy and disrespect.
So, like I said, I want to know what SWRP thinks, though specifically the women. Is there a line? Where is that line? General thoughts? Concerns? New ideas? Is chivalry outright disrespectful? Or, conversely, is it a necessity? I realize this isn't a raging controversy, but I find it enlightening and rather important nonetheless.
All comments of a non-idiotic (i.e. derogatory/sexist and/or spam) nature are, of course, welcome.
Discuss!